Dr Chamodya Fernando – representing a vibrant journey of determination and courage in overcoming life changing challenges 

Dr. Chamodya Fernando is a dedicated and inspiring physician who has faced numerous challenges both personally and professionally, emerging stronger and more determined to make a difference in the world. Having lost her parents at a young age and overcoming significant obstacles, including the global pandemic, she has persevered to build a successful career in medicine. In this exclusive interview with Satynmag.com, Liya.lk, and Snehidi.com, Dr. Fernando reflects on her journey, the importance of resilience, and how Sri Lankan women can rise above societal expectations to pursue their ambitions.

What or who inspired you in your life?

“My parents are my greatest inspiration. Both of them worked hard and showed immense dedication in everything they did. They allowed me the freedom to follow my interests, even if it meant I might fail. They were always there, guiding me with their wisdom and kindness. The valuable lessons I learned from them have shaped me into who I am today, and I am forever grateful for the foundation they provided.”

What challenges did you face when striving to achieve success, and how did you overcome them?

“Losing my parents at the age of 20 was one of the most heart-wrenching moments in my life. I found myself completely unprepared for the world – I didn’t know how to navigate life on my own. In Sri Lanka, I had been shielded from doing many things independently. My time in China was vastly different, and returning home made the contrast even more stark. Adapting was the key, and over time, I mastered the skills I needed. I also went through an emotional roller coaster, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic. I was stuck in Sri Lanka when China closed its borders to international students, delaying my medical degree by two years.

“It was hard to stay positive amidst all these setbacks. There were moments when I felt like giving up. But I realised that my end goal, my ambition to become a doctor, was still within reach. That desire to achieve my dream kept me going. Along the way, I had people who supported me, like Mrs. Shiromi and Hemas, who helped stabilise my career path. I also learned the importance of mental health and positivity. I changed my mindset, focusing on gratitude for even the smallest things. That shift in perspective gave me strength and resilience. Challenges like these taught me that success comes with persistence and a positive outlook.”

In what ways do you believe Sri Lankan women can rise above societal expectations and pursue their ambitions?

“I believe Sri Lankan women can rise above societal expectations by letting go of negativity and nurturing a strong sense of ambition. It’s essential for women to believe in themselves and know that they can achieve their goals, no matter the obstacles. Society may try to set boundaries, but we have the power to break through them.”

What challenges do you see facing young women of today in Sri Lanka?

“One of the biggest challenges young women in Sri Lanka face is the lack of opportunities and support. There’s also a lack of freedom to fully express themselves and pursue their ambitions without judgement. It can be difficult to find the resources needed to succeed, whether that’s in terms of education, career advancement, or personal growth.”

How would you describe your personal journey so far?

“I’m incredibly proud of the person I’ve become. I started as a girl with insecurities, anxiety about the future, and fear of being alone. But over time, I learned how to survive and thrive. I’ve met a lot of different people, not all of them positive, but each interaction taught me something valuable. Life is a journey, and how we react to it shapes our experience. I’ve learned that it’s never too late to pursue your dreams, and I encourage others to embrace that mindset.”

What advice would you give to young women who want to achieve success?

“Never give up an option. Life is like a roller coaster with ups and downs, but it’s important to remember that even the smallest achievements are still wins. Don’t just measure success by big milestones—appreciate every little step along the way. Confidence is your greatest accessory. Like Priyanka Chopra Jonas once said, ‘Confidence is the key.’ Be bold, take risks, and learn from every experience, whether it’s a success or a lesson.”

Name three things you consider important for every aspiring young woman to be mindful of on her journey.

“Firstly, be mindful of the people you surround yourself with—they can either lift you up or bring you down. Secondly, protect your mental health. Anxiety, stress, and overthinking won’t take you anywhere, so live in the moment and do your best. Lastly, be accountable for your actions and keep pushing forward. As one of my favourite quotes says, ‘Go laugh where you cried, go win where you lost, go dominate in front of those who didn’t believe in you.'”

Anything else you’d like to add Dr. Chamodya Fernando?

“I’d just like to say to every young woman out there: work hard, dream big, be grateful for what you have, and always aim to be a blessing to those around you. Be a good human, and success will follow. Your journey is your own—rewrite your history, and never stop believing in yourself. Thank you “